Jul 14, 2022
In Wellness Forum
A girl with excellent writing often writes about her mother, but her mother is as capricious as a big girl, and even more clumsily hides many secrets that her daughter does not want to know. Once, the girl took the initiative to explain to Tian Weining, the part of the article that she was inconvenient to write, "She felt that I was someone who could understand her, and she intuited that there was some kind of secret similarity between us." The girl's intuition is accurate, and Tian Weining also has a mysterious mother. "Looking for my mother in a thousand miles has never been in my life plan." At the age of four, Tian Weining's mother left without saying goodbye, ended her broken marriage, moved to Hawaii sadly from Taiwan, and disappeared from Tian Weining's life. Unlike her seven-year-old sister who had company banner design memories, Tian Weining's mother was absent from beginning to end in Tian Weining's life. "If you don't have it, how can you lose it?" My sister and aunt were competent to fill the role of mother, so Tian Weining was always surrounded by overflowing love from childhood to adulthood, but she didn't think her mother's absence was a life defect. In the past, Tian Weining felt that it was unnecessary, until he saw the perseverance and perseverance of going to the root in the eyes of the students, Tian Weining made up his mind to pursue the memory that almost never existed. In 2016, when Tian Weining was 37 years old, he visited Hawaii for the first time with his sister and officially set off to find his mother. The process was unexpected, but it was a matter of course. "The way my mother looked at me for the first time was even stranger than the way my parents looked at me." The unfamiliar eyes reflected the blank memories of many years, but Tian Weining was not completely surprised, nor did he envy the vague memory of his mother. The elder sister who has a place, compared with her elder sister's loss when she realized her mother's departure, Tian Weining felt fortunate that she had never felt a lack of memory because of her lack of memory, and she completely accepted her mother's strangeness when she first saw him. "My mother doesn't remember me, but I can understand." Tian Weining counted down the time he really spent with his mother, maybe only two years as a child, "still crying all day long, always making trouble." When apples were still imported, Tian Weining was hospitalized every three days due to poor health. The doctor told his mother that Tian Weining had to eat apples to restore his body. "The apple puree I eat is sometimes the money my father makes by driving a taxi for a day." Tian Weining does not have his mother in his memory, but Tian Weining in his mother's memory is short-lived and vague, fragmented by time and space. Their lives used to be parallel, but because Tian Weining searched for his mother thousands of miles, they met again.